Friendship is one important
element of our life. Most people do not want to lose any part of friendship. At
the same time, however, friendship is hard to protect. According to The Friendship Bond by Parlee, trust and
acceptance are the two most significant building blocks of friendship. A recent
survey in psychology and social psychologists both show that honest or trust
and acceptance will affect friendship to become deeper or easily broken. There
are some reasons cause friendship to become deeper which are trust, interest
and acceptance.
Parlee believes that trust allows people to open up to other people and reveal the parts of them that are valuable. In addition, trust will cause friendship to become deeper because friends trust each other and share their secrets or experience. During that time, the bond of friend will become stronger by trust. For example, social psychologists have a theory about friendship and trust. It states that trust connects people to become closer and happier. When friends have conversation, they will look at each other’s eyes and it means they trust each other and accept each other. That is why; trust causes friendship to become deeper.
Parlee also believes that acceptance caused friendship to become deeper too. The author thinks friends will accept each other even when he or she does not totally approve, they will still support their friend and understand he or she. In my opinion, I totally agree the opinion of the author when we have problem, friends will help[ us, support us and accept us. For instance, if you have a friend who supports you and understand you then you will feel so confident. Therefore, the relationship between you and your friend should be stronger. Acceptance makes friends feel confident to become together and get closer. Just like trust, acceptance also causes friendship to become deeper.
However, the author does not describe the interest between friends. Interest causes friends to become closer and share their experience and happiness. According to the history of England, many rich people liked to stay together by their interest such as music, foods and studying. They would create a group of people who had same interest as they had. Sometimes, this group of people would go to club to make more friends that who had the same interests as they had, so interest causes people to become together and get closer. Moreover, people who have the same interests understand each other easily like trust and acceptance.
In conclusion, trust, acceptance and interest cause the bond of friendship to become stronger. More and more, those three elements will make us have a good relationship with our friends. Be honest and accept your friends and you will be supported by your friends too. Have the same interest of your friends, you will have a topic to talk and never stop your friendship. Those three elements are the sources of good friendship.
Parlee believes that trust allows people to open up to other people and reveal the parts of them that are valuable. In addition, trust will cause friendship to become deeper because friends trust each other and share their secrets or experience. During that time, the bond of friend will become stronger by trust. For example, social psychologists have a theory about friendship and trust. It states that trust connects people to become closer and happier. When friends have conversation, they will look at each other’s eyes and it means they trust each other and accept each other. That is why; trust causes friendship to become deeper.
Parlee also believes that acceptance caused friendship to become deeper too. The author thinks friends will accept each other even when he or she does not totally approve, they will still support their friend and understand he or she. In my opinion, I totally agree the opinion of the author when we have problem, friends will help[ us, support us and accept us. For instance, if you have a friend who supports you and understand you then you will feel so confident. Therefore, the relationship between you and your friend should be stronger. Acceptance makes friends feel confident to become together and get closer. Just like trust, acceptance also causes friendship to become deeper.
However, the author does not describe the interest between friends. Interest causes friends to become closer and share their experience and happiness. According to the history of England, many rich people liked to stay together by their interest such as music, foods and studying. They would create a group of people who had same interest as they had. Sometimes, this group of people would go to club to make more friends that who had the same interests as they had, so interest causes people to become together and get closer. Moreover, people who have the same interests understand each other easily like trust and acceptance.
In conclusion, trust, acceptance and interest cause the bond of friendship to become stronger. More and more, those three elements will make us have a good relationship with our friends. Be honest and accept your friends and you will be supported by your friends too. Have the same interest of your friends, you will have a topic to talk and never stop your friendship. Those three elements are the sources of good friendship.